You’re Working Hard to Be the Hero.

So Why Does It Feel Like You’re Losing Power?

Take the Energy Leak Audit. In 3 minutes, pinpoint exactly where your nervous system is draining your power—and get an immediate tool to stop it.

It’s Not A Character Flaw. It’s A Leak.

Most men think the answer to relationship stress is to "do more." To be nicer. To endure the pressure. But if "doing more" was the answer, you wouldn’t be feeling this exhausted.

If you recognize yourself in these patterns, you have an active Energy Leak:

The Eggshell Walk

You constantly monitor the room, afraid to say the wrong thing or trigger a conflict.

The Nice Guy / Tyrant Pendulum

You suppress your needs to keep the peace ("Nice Guy"), until the pressure builds and you explode or shut down ("The Tyrant").

The Transaction Trap

You feel like you’re doing everything right, but you aren’t getting the appreciation, affection, or respect you’ve "earned".

THE PROMISE (What happens when you finish?)

Complete the 10-question audit above to get your Personalized Leak Score.

Immediately after you submit your answers, you will unlock:

1. THE BREAKDOWN (Video from Jay)

I’ll explain what your score means and why the "Nice Guy" approach is actually sabotaging the intimacy you want. You’ll see exactly how to shift from "Walking on Eggshells" to "Walking on Ground".

2. THE RELEASE (Guided Nervous System Session)

You don't just need information; you need relief. I have recorded a specific Guided Nervous System Release. This 2-minute audio/video experience will help you physically drop the weight you are carrying right now.

Meet Jay Dubois, PhD

For years, I played the "Nice Guy." I thought if I just sacrificed enough, I would be loved. Instead, I ended up resentful, exhausted, and disconnected. I realized I was trying to save everyone else while losing myself. Now, I help men use the ARC Protocol to stop the leaks and become the grounded, powerful partner they were meant to be.